Foster care is a critical need in Virginia, and the call for compassionate foster families has never been louder. To ensure children in foster care can maintain vital connections to their families and communities while family reunification is pursued, Virginia has launched an efficient system to streamline the process for prospective foster parents. Think of it as an “arrow” pointing you directly to the heart of foster care – the Arrow Foster Care Program, also known as the Faster Families Highway. This initiative is designed to rapidly connect individuals like you with local departments of social services, accelerating your journey to becoming a certified foster parent and beginning your impactful role in supporting children and families right in your neighborhood.
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By creating an account and engaging with the Faster Families Highway, you’re choosing the most direct path to making a difference. This program simplifies the initial steps, providing a clear and supported route to foster care certification. If you’re driven to provide a nurturing environment and become a pillar of support for children and families in need, the Arrow Foster Care Program is your starting point.
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For more information on becoming a foster parent, click here to visit FosterVA.com
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Understanding Foster Care: Providing Temporary Care with Lasting Impact
Considering becoming a foster parent means understanding the fundamental purpose of foster care. It’s designed as a temporary haven, not a permanent solution, for children who have been removed from their homes due to situations like neglect, abuse, abandonment, or other circumstances that compromise their safety and well-being. The primary aim is always family reunification. Every possible effort is made to support and enable children to return to their biological families. However, when immediate family care isn’t possible, foster homes become essential. In these situations, foster families collaborate closely with the local department of social services, the child’s biological family, the child (when appropriate), and other community partners to create a supportive network.
The temporary nature of foster care, coupled with the complex needs of children entering the system, requires a special kind of commitment from foster parents. They open their homes and hearts to children, offering care and treating them as integral members of their family. A crucial aspect of successful foster care is the foster parents’ ability to understand and address the diverse physical and emotional needs of children, always within the context of their individual cultural backgrounds. To equip foster parents for this vital role, the foster care program provides comprehensive support and training, ensuring they are well-prepared to offer daily care and effective supervision.
Virginia, through the Virginia Department of Social Services (VDSS), also partners with the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services and federally contracted agencies to administer the Unaccompanied Refugee Minor (URM) program. This program reflects a commitment to vulnerable youth, aiming to reunify unaccompanied refugee minors with their parents or suitable adult relatives whenever feasible. It provides culturally sensitive and therapeutic foster care services to these minors and other special populations of unaccompanied youth within the United States. For individuals and families specifically interested in fostering unaccompanied refugee minors, 2-1-1 Virginia (https://www.211virginia.org/) is a valuable resource for targeted information and support.
The Vital Role of a Foster Parent
Foster parents are the cornerstone of the foster care system. They are entrusted with providing a safe, stable, temporary, and nurturing environment for children during a challenging time in their lives. Becoming a foster parent means joining a dedicated team working to support the child and implement plans designed for their well-being and future. This collaborative effort involves active engagement with biological parents, the court system, local departments of social services, and various other agencies involved in the child’s care.
Reunification: The Primary Goal
Reunification, the process of children returning to their parents after a period in foster care, is always the paramount goal. Extensive research consistently demonstrates that children thrive best within their own families. Therefore, foster care placements are fundamentally aimed at facilitating successful reunification. Achieving this goal requires a strong, supportive team consisting of child welfare professionals and dedicated foster parents working in concert.
Foster parents and kinship foster parents play a crucial role in supporting reunification by ensuring children are safe, secure, and connected to their birth families while parents are given the opportunity and support to address challenges and create a stable, safe home environment for their children’s return. Social workers, attorneys, and judges are integral parts of this process, ensuring fairness and safety for everyone involved. These collaborative relationships are absolutely critical to achieving successful family reunification.
While reunification is the primary aim and a frequent outcome, it’s important to acknowledge that it isn’t always possible. Approximately one-third of children in foster care achieve reunification each year. For the remaining children, permanency is achieved through adoption (if parental rights are terminated), placement with relatives, or independent living as they reach adulthood.
Virginia recognizes and celebrates the hard work and dedication involved in family reunification each June during Family Reunification Month. This annual event honors the collective efforts of parents, foster parents, kinship foster parents, child welfare professionals, attorneys, judges, and treatment teams in bringing families back together and building stronger communities.
To gain deeper insights and inspiration, you can explore ‘The Real Stories of Foster & Adoptive Families’, a collection of powerful and moving stories from Virginia families whose lives have been touched and transformed through foster care and adoption.
Permanency: Providing Lifelong Connections
When children enter foster care, establishing safe and permanent homes as quickly as possible is of utmost importance. “Permanency” in foster care encompasses various paths, all focused on providing children with lasting stability and belonging. It can take different forms depending on the specific circumstances of the child, their family, and their case. The main routes to permanency include:
- Reunification: Returning to their original family home.
- Kinship Care/Custody Transfer: Placement or custody transfer to a relative, offering familiar and familial support.
- Adoption: Becoming a permanent member of a new adoptive family.
Permanency is about more than just a stable living situation; it’s about helping children establish and nurture enduring family connections. These connections offer a lifetime of support, commitment, and a profound sense of belonging that extends far beyond the temporary nature of foster care, providing a foundation as they transition into adulthood. While reunification remains the primary goal in many cases, when it’s not viable, finding permanent homes with relatives or adoptive families becomes crucial for a child’s long-term well-being.
The initial focus when a child comes to the attention of the child welfare system is always on supporting and stabilizing the existing family unit to prevent the need for foster care placement in the first place. If removal is necessary to ensure a child’s immediate safety, permanency planning efforts immediately shift to facilitating their safe return home as soon as possible. If reunification is not a safe or feasible option, the focus then turns to establishing other permanent family arrangements, such as kinship care with relatives or adoption, ensuring legal and emotional security for the child.
Taking the First Step: Becoming a Foster Parent
If you’re considering opening your heart and home to a child in need, understanding the process of becoming a foster parent is essential. The basic requirements are straightforward, focusing on your capacity to provide a nurturing and safe environment.
Steps in the Approval Process
- Attend a one-time orientation meeting: This introductory session provides a comprehensive overview of foster parenting, helping you understand the realities and rewards of this role.
- Successfully complete pre-service training: This training equips you with the necessary skills and knowledge to effectively care for children in foster care, covering various aspects from child development to trauma-informed care.
- Complete a home study: A home study is a process of assessment and preparation, ensuring your home environment meets safety standards and is conducive to foster care. It also helps social workers understand your strengths and suitability as a foster parent.
- Participate in at least three (3) face-to-face interviews: These interviews provide an opportunity for in-depth conversations to discuss your motivations, experiences, and preparedness for foster parenting.
- Submit to national background checks: This includes a Fingerprint Criminal Record check, a child abuse and neglect history check, and a DMV check, ensuring the safety and well-being of children in care.
- Provide a physician’s report: This verifies that you are physically and mentally capable of meeting the demands of caring for a child.
- Verify sufficient income: You need to demonstrate that you have enough income to adequately provide for your existing family needs, ensuring that fostering is a financially stable decision.
- Submit names of three (3) references: References provide additional perspectives on your character and suitability for foster parenting.
Embark on your journey today! Join the Faster Families Highway – your Arrow Foster Care Program – to connect with your local department of social services and begin the process of becoming a foster parent.
Common Questions About Foster Parenting
Many people considering foster care naturally have questions. Here are answers to some frequently asked questions to help clarify what’s involved:
Who are the children in foster care?
Children in foster care come from diverse backgrounds and families across Virginia. They range in age from newborns to 17 years old. Currently, there are approximately 5,000 children in foster care in Virginia, each with unique stories and needs.
Can single individuals become foster parents?
Absolutely. Foster parents can be single, married, divorced, or widowed. Virginia’s foster care system embraces diversity and does not discriminate based on culture, religion, race, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, affectional orientation, or marital/civil union or domestic partnership status. The most important factor is your willingness and capability to provide nurturing and effective parenting.
Can foster parents work outside the home?
Yes, most foster parents are employed. Your local department of social services can often provide financial assistance for childcare for your foster children while you are working, making foster parenting compatible with employment.
How many foster children can I care for?
The number of foster children you can have in your home is determined on a case-by-case basis during the licensing process. Home capacity is assessed based on various factors, but regulations specify that the total number of children in a foster home cannot exceed eight.
How long do foster children stay in my home?
Foster care is intended to be temporary and short-term. Each situation is unique, and the length of time a child remains in foster care depends on their family’s specific circumstances and the progress towards reunification or another permanency plan.
Will I interact with the child’s birth parents?
Yes, collaborative relationships between foster parents and birth parents are highly encouraged. Working together, when appropriate, can be beneficial for the child and support the goal of reunification.
What happens when a foster child returns home?
The ultimate goal for most children in foster care is reunification with their families. Foster parents are typically involved in the planning process for a child’s return home and have the opportunity to say goodbye. While it can be emotionally challenging, a child returning home is considered a success, marking progress towards family stability.
What if a child cannot return home?
In situations where reunification is not possible and relative placement isn’t an option, children may become eligible for adoption. Foster parents are often given the opportunity to adopt children in their care if adoption becomes the permanency plan. Importantly, foster children are covered by Medicaid, ensuring access to all necessary medical care and treatment.
What support is available for first-time foster parents?
Becoming a foster parent means you are not alone. A dedicated caseworker will be assigned to provide ongoing support throughout a child’s placement in your home. You’ll also have opportunities to attend regular training sessions. Financial assistance for childcare and other activities for foster children may also be available. Joining a foster parent support group, such as FACES or the National Foster Parent Association (NFPA), is a valuable way to connect with experienced foster parents for advice and peer support.
Will a past conviction disqualify me from fostering?
It depends on the nature and severity of the offense and how much time has passed since the conviction. Certain serious offenses, known as barrier crimes, will prevent an applicant from being approved as a foster parent. Each case is reviewed individually.
Can I adopt without being a foster parent first?
If you are pursuing adoption through a Licensed Child Placing Agency, you can be approved for adoption without prior foster care experience. However, in Virginia, a significant number of adoptions – over 60% – involve foster parents adopting children who were previously in their care. Foster care can be a pathway to adoption.
Debunking Common Myths About Foster Care
Misconceptions about foster care can sometimes prevent caring individuals from considering becoming foster parents. Let’s address some common myths:
Myth: I could never be a foster parent because it would break my heart when the child returned home.
Fact: While saying goodbye can be difficult, remember that even a short time in your loving home can make a profound positive impact on a child’s life. You might be the one person who provides stability, care, and positive experiences during a turbulent period. Building relationships with biological families can also allow for continued connection even after reunification.
Myth: Foster parents must be stay-at-home parents and cannot work full-time.
Fact: The majority of foster parents work outside of the home. Childcare assistance is often available through your local department of social services, making it feasible to balance work and foster parenting.
Myth: You need a high income, like at least $45,000, to be a foster parent.
Fact: There are no specific income requirements. The focus is on ensuring you have sufficient income to meet the needs of your own family, demonstrating financial stability.
Myth: You must be married to become a foster parent.
*Fact: Foster care welcomes individuals from all walks of life. You can be single, married, divorced, or widowed.
Myth: You must own your own home to be a foster parent.
Fact: Whether you own or rent a house, apartment, or trailer, you can be eligible to become a foster parent. The focus is on a safe and suitable living environment.
Myth: You need a college degree to be a foster parent.
*Fact**: There are no educational degree requirements to become a foster parent. Life experience, compassion, and a willingness to learn are more important.*
Myth: Foster children must always have their own bedroom.
Fact: Foster children can share a bedroom, although there are guidelines. Generally, children of the opposite sex over the age of three should not share a room.
Myth: Same-sex parents are not as capable of providing a healthy environment for children.
Fact: Research consistently shows that children raised by same-sex parents thrive just as well as those raised by heterosexual parents. They grow up in equally positive and supportive environments.
Myth: Foster parents have to add foster children to their personal medical insurance.
Fact: Most children in foster care qualify for Medicaid, which covers their medical expenses. Foster parents are not required to include foster children on their private health insurance.
Essential Resources for Foster Care in Virginia
For further information and support, explore these valuable resources:
Permanency Matters Newsletters
The Virginia Department of Social Services (VDSS) publishes “Permanency Matters” newsletters periodically. These newsletters highlight key topics in foster care, including reunification, adoption, kinship care, and best practices. They share inspiring stories, showcase successful initiatives from local departments of social services, provide updates on current events and training opportunities, and offer shared experiences from families involved in the system. You can contribute your agency’s permanency promotion efforts by contacting mailto:[email protected].
Kinship Care Resources
Kinship care, the full-time nurturing and protection of children by relatives, is strongly supported by the Virginia Department of Social Services when children cannot reside with their parents. Virginia offers assistance to kinship care families through both informal and formal arrangements.
Informal Kinship Care
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Formal Kinship Care
Formal kinship care applies when a child is in the custody of a local department of social services and is placed with a relative who is an approved foster parent. Assistance in this case includes:
- Annual training to enhance knowledge and skills in meeting the child’s needs.
- A monthly stipend to help cover the child’s basic care expenses.
- Support and guidance in managing the child’s behavior.
Related Brochures & Links
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Safe and Sound Task Force & Applicable Laws
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Foster Care Services in Virginia
Virginia’s foster care services are comprehensive, aimed at ensuring child safety and well-being within a supportive family environment. While the goal is always to keep families together whenever possible, when foster care is necessary, a range of services becomes available:
Placement Services
This includes carefully matching children with appropriate foster families, group homes, residential facilities, or independent living arrangements based on their individual needs.
Teaching Independent Living Skills
Services are specifically designed to help foster youth aged 14-21 develop essential skills for a successful transition to self-sufficiency. These services focus on personal development skills such as self-esteem, communication, decision-making, conflict resolution, and anger management.
Physical and Mental Health Treatment
Access to comprehensive physical and mental health treatment is a crucial component of foster care services, addressing needs such as:
- Substance abuse
- Depression
- Socialization challenges
- ADHD
- Nutritional deficiencies
- Pregnancy-related care
- Physical disabilities
Mentoring Programs
Mentoring provides positive role models for both children and parents. Programs like Big Brother/Big Sister are invaluable, along with tutoring and other supportive mentoring relationships.
Opportunities for Permanent Living Situations
This service focuses on fostering connections between children and relatives or previous caregivers, aiming to establish long-term permanent living arrangements. For older youth transitioning out of care, this may include assistance with finding apartments or roommates.
Guidance Manuals, Forms, and Educational Stability Resources
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Normalcy for Youth in Foster Care
The “Normalcy” initiative, guided by the Preventing Sex Trafficking and Strengthening Families Act, is designed to ensure that children in foster care have opportunities for typical childhood experiences. It empowers caregivers to make everyday decisions, using the “Reasonable and Prudent Parent Standard,” allowing foster children to participate in extracurricular, enrichment, cultural, and social activities, fostering their emotional and developmental growth while ensuring their health and safety.
Key Aspects of the “Normalcy” Law:
The law requires caregivers to use the Reasonable and Prudent Parent Standard when making decisions, considering:
- The child’s age, maturity, and developmental level.
- Potential risks and appropriateness of activities.
- The child’s best interests based on caregiver knowledge.
- Encouraging emotional and developmental growth.
- Providing a family-like living experience.
- The child’s behavioral history and ability to participate safely.
- Wishes of birth parents (if parental rights are not terminated).
- The child’s foster care plan.
Examples of “Normalcy” in Practice:
Social Media:
- Foster children are generally permitted to participate in social media with caregiver permission.
Driving:
- Caregivers and caseworkers should support older youth in driver’s education, obtaining permits and licenses (considering age, maturity, and insurance), and acquiring car insurance.
Overnight/Planned Outings:
- Caregivers can determine safety and appropriateness for outings. Background checks are not needed for normal school or community activities like field trips, dating, sleepovers, or activities with school, church, or community groups.
Bank Accounts:
- Children should be encouraged to open and manage bank accounts when appropriate for their age and maturity.
Babysitting:
- Older youth can babysit, consistent with their foster care plan. Babysitting courses are recommended. Caregivers can also hire babysitters, ensuring they are suitable, understand emergency procedures, and are informed about discipline and confidentiality policies.
Vacations:
- Caregivers are encouraged to include foster children in family vacations, just as they would their own children.
Special Considerations for “Normalcy”:
- Foster youth with disabilities must have equal opportunities to participate in activities.
- Confidentiality rules should not restrict participation in age-appropriate activities.
Consistent with their foster care plan, children should be encouraged and permitted to:
- Manage their own money.
- Have phone access.
- Have reasonable curfews.
- Travel with peers or adults.
- Have their photos published (newspaper, yearbook).
- Receive public recognition for achievements.
- Participate in school and extracurricular activities.
Age-appropriate information should be provided to children regarding:
- Teen sexuality.
- Drug and alcohol use/abuse.
- Runaway prevention.
- Health services.
- Community involvement.
- Available resources.
- Legal rights and advice.
Download the Providing Normalcy for Youth in Foster Care resource guide for more detailed information.
Normalcy Training Course:
A training course is available for foster parents, congregate care providers, social services staff, and community partners in Virginia. This training helps participants understand the Reasonable and Prudent Parent Standard and differentiate between decisions foster parents can make independently versus those requiring department authorization. It empowers foster parents to promote a more “normal” life for youth in foster care.
